Old Hoes...

Why can't a man be a slut?

This is a question that I've been asked by women as we debate the concept of male and female equality. But that's not what I'm going to talk about today. I will answer the question though,

"A man can't be a slut because you won't call him one." 

I personally don't think anyone should take the word slut to offense. It means, according to my opinion, (the only one that matters) that you're a person who not only enjoys sex, but have no problem sharing that with someone else. In our modern, highly secular (increasingly non-religious) generation, it's kind of insane that women still get looked at as if they have less value for having as many sex partners as a man would. 

I've met a good amount of sluts in my day, some I've spent a night with, some that I haven't. They're usually some of the coolest women you could talk to. They're not afraid to talk about the more mature things, they're not kidding themselves or anyone else, and they're always ready to teach you a thing or two. These are the women who've lived a little. learned a little. And might have had a few more sexual partners than me. And my best friend. And all of my brothers. Combined.

I'm not saying this is some kind of representation of the number of penises. But it's not far off.

A special group of women in the slut category are the former sluts. I love these women. The women in this category have enjoyed themselves, made mistakes, and had fun. They've taken risks and would take them again in the right situation. They're adventurous and experienced.

The reason I appreciate them so much is that they're usually wise in some way, sexy in some way, know what they want, and know what a man wants. I've been in a relationship with a girl who admitted she used to be a little bit loose in the caboose. Granted I declined any offer for stories or examples, but it made a difference. All of my needs were met, and as a person, you usually don't get a better personality. She was fun, adventurous, and kind. Things didn't work out for one reason or another, but it wasn't related to her past, and we parted on very friendly and mature terms.
Men and women can both be sluts, this is true. But women can grow out of it. They can have their "phases" and move on and learn from them. Men are the ones who have the harder time killing those old habits. 
For men and women, if your partner has a past, learn to accept it. It's better that they did it before you, than after you. So show those old hoes some love. Because, let's face it, you'd probably still be a virgin without them.