What a girl wants...

Women are complicated as shit. That's why I made this blog. The strangest thing I noticed about talking to women is that they want you to want them, but act like you don't. That's because over thousands of years of "evolution", things have gotten, well, complicated. Women know that it's a buyer's market, and they're the ones with the cash. This sets up for an interesting little dance between men and women. Men become a little more accustomed to rejection. If we don't put ourselves out there, we will always lose out to the guy who will. Women, on the other hand are accustomed to being chased. They like to know that they can compare to other women, when all they can do is sit and wait on the dogs to catch the scent. Women rarely go out of their way to put themselves on the line to get a guy, because rejection to most women is way more painful than you would think. We all know rejection sucks, but for guys, it's a momentary lapse, an occupational hazard if you will. For women, rejection can turn their world upside down for a while. They rethink EVERYTHING. The difference in preparation for rejection for women and men is something we've known about for a long time. You ever seen a woman start preparing to go out anywhere? If they plan on being somewhere at 8, they start preparing at 4, and aren't ready until 9. A guy would Start preparing at 730 and be ready by 735. Women like to know they look their best, and when a guy who spent 45 seconds choosing an outfit and 35 seconds putting it on rejects them, after they took the day off work to get an eight hour jump on the eight hour process of getting ready.
So women want you to notice. But they won't tell you, and they won't go out of their way to talk to you to let you know that you have a chance. But they also don't want you to look desperate. Women want you to approach them like you have other options. They want you to try, but not too hard. Yeah... it's a complicated process.
I would like to say that I had the mathematical equation to teach you the happy medium but you can never really predict where a woman's preferences will actually land. In the end, the closest you can come to landing in that happy medium is confidence.